Chapter 1405
"Before that, I believe it might have been a little strange for you to hear, because in our current inherent thinking, a herd without a leader is a derogatory term, indicating that a team without a principal, a company without a boss, is what is called a herd without a leader."
"But it is visible that it has been passed down for thousands of years all wrongly used, and as a result it has been wrong again and again, so wrong that now it can only be wrong, and what was wrong is also right, and what was wrong is now true."
"This is what one yin and one yang is called the Tao, and the Tao is all-encompassing and all-embracing."
"If it is right, to see a herd of dragons without a head is evil, not good."
"Then it means that even if you are a dragon, but at different stages you have to adjust differently, you can't stay the same layer even if you are a dragon, and without adjustment the dragon dies a miserable death."
"In our current language, life is all about stage adjustments."
"To do this well is to 'see the dragon without a head', so if you don't read the I Ching you don't know the original moral of the dragon without a head, the I Ching is difficult to read that's one of the reasons, sometimes it's a terrible thing to misunderstand or distort the words of the ancients, to miss the mark by a hair's breadth."
"To be more specific, the Qian Gua is the division of a person's life into six stages."
"A stage is almost twenty years or so, but that's just a reference, it varies from person to person, some people only have a few years in this stage and a few decades in that stage, some people may stop there at stage three, with no possibility of advancing to stage four."
"It's the six words mentioned earlier."
"The first stage is called 'latent', latent, which means not to manifest."
"The second stage is called 'present', in the workplace, such as company meetings, we Chinese are usually clever enough to hide for a while before we show up, he won't show up right away because the real protagonist usually comes on stage last."
"The third stage is called 'Tigers', you don't have a big problem if you don't show occasionally without being vigilant, but remember the saying, as soon as you start to show and you are not vigilant, your flaws even those you don't even know about will all be exposed at that time and then become a fatal weakness for others to attack you."
"The fourth stage is called 'leap', at this time you have to find a way to find the opportunity to leap to the Dragon Gate, diligently for such an opportunity, leap over and once you reach the Dragon Gate you will be worth a hundred times ten thousand times more, fail to leap over, forget it, then fall down and don't try to rise."
"This stage is the turning point in life. If you leap up to the next stage, you will be able to fly to the sky.
"The fifth stage is called 'flying', but the I Ching warns us at this time that when you develop to the fifth stage, you probably have to stop in moderation, you don't want to go overboard anymore, you'll be hyperactive if you go overboard."
"The sixth stage is called 'hyper', the hyperactive dragon has regrets, this is the last stage of the Qian Gua, the last stage must be the hyperactive dragon has regrets."
"Your business is well run, you should stop blindly seeking to be bigger and stronger, not that you don't do it anymore but stop blindly doing it for the sake of being bigger and stronger, the bigger you do the wider you take into account, but people have limitations, there is always a time when a hundred secrets and one oversight."
"And a hundred tightness is like a thousand miles of mention collapsing in an anthill, if you continue like this you will risk over-expansion and collapse, why is it hard to brake or turn sharply in a big truck? The block is too big, you turn the corner ironically and roll over, this is the reasoning of the hyperactive dragon."
Li Linfei continued eloquently, "The first line of the Qian trigram is "Submerge the dragon and don't use it", the meaning is clear, in the first stage of life, a person's ability is very limited and needs to submerge first, but what does "don't use it" mean?"
"One has to be fully prepared to 'submerge', not to say not to manifest or not to manifest, the word 'do not' does not mean 'not', you should not use when you are 'submerging the dragon', this is wrong, do not use is to stand in the position of not using, do not use is to use."
"So that you all understand that a Chinese person who says he has an opinion is first to say he has no opinion, if you say you have no opinion and people don't ask you, that means people don't listen even if you speak, so what are you speaking about?"
"If in the workplace, the boss asks his subordinate if you have any opinion? If the boss asks you again, you say no, and the boss asks you again, say yes! You said, the third time still do not say when to say? If you don't say it, you won't have the chance to say it later."
"Does it feel like a lot of pushing and dragging?"
"Why do Chinese people push and delay? When relatives give you red envelopes on New Year's Day, you say no to all kinds of things, but both hands put your pockets in the most conspicuous position, very sincere."
The whole audience laughed at this remark, the picture dared to be extremely strong and too real, the pop-ups all laughed, they all said they were inexplicably lying.
On stage, Li Linfei laughed with everyone for a while, holding the microphone with ease and continued to laugh and said, "Why?"
"People might say, pretentious! Pushing and dragging!"
"In fact, many people do not understand push dragging, it is to push to the most reasonable person, rather than dragging time to shirk responsibility, that is wrong. The responsibility is whose is whose absolutely cannot be pushed off, it will only be a waste of time, the real pushing of procrastination is through this act to the most appropriate person."
"So that usually a company in the meeting, we will first listen to others, you first listen to the heart will have a spectrum, oh, they said after all is not as good as my planning idea ah, have a spectrum, then I will speak, this time not to speak still like it? Do you still want to get a promotion and a pay rise?"
"If you listen to someone else first and find his planning idea good, thinking I'm lucky I didn't speak first, I would have been miserable if I had spoken first, I would have lost face and become his foil, the boss would have had a chance to do something later, but immediately thought he was doing better than me, I wouldn't have had a chance."
"So you see how beneficial thinking is?"
"Then why are you fighting to be first? Nowadays, they say you have to compete and lead, but in fact they misunderstand the Taoist Lao Tzu, who was competing for first, the Taoist was very active, but he was competing from the standpoint of not competing for first."
"And to express an opinion is to stand in the position of not having an opinion so as not to talk nonsense, to contend with the contention of not contending is the highest level of contention, students go back and slowly experience the meaning of 'latent', the Tao is to be enlightened."
When Li Linfei was talking on stage, far away in Xiangzhong City Future Technology Group, the executive president's office, Li Bingling was also watching the live broadcast.
Chapter 1406
Li Bingling looked at Li Linfei on the screen, only to see that the latter was as good as his word and continued, "And 'dive' means to show, if you don't show then why are you diving? It's not necessary."
"To say no is to want, one yin and one yang is called the Tao, to want and not to want are linked together it will not be separated."
The first time I heard him say that, I always felt strange, I always thought of that side of things, it's over, it's really over, I've been completely brought down by him, my mind is all tainted.
On the other side, Li Linfei laughed easily and humorously, "So if you tell this to a westerner he will be directly dumbfounded, a westerner is bound to make a clear distinction between 'to be' and 'not to be', to be is to be, not to be is not to be, a westerner nods, but if you tell him not to be is to be, to be is not to be, he will be dumbfounded on the spot."
Audience: hahaha
"I wonder if the crooked people are watching, I'd love to know how they feel."
"I have a crooked friend and he's really honey dumbfounded right now."
"But you talk to a Chinese person and he quickly understands, we all know that Chinese people never say everything, they only say half of it, the other half is in their heart, you want to know what a Chinese person is saying in his heart, you have to rely on enlightenment, and awareness."
"So there is no barrier for a Chinese to communicate with a Chinese, but a Chinese to communicate with a Westerner, they will be confused, we won't, we are tolerant."
"I'll give you a few random examples that are familiar to everyone and will certainly make you smile when you hear them."
"For example: when the mouth says you don't judge a man by his success or failure there is another saying in your heart... success is a king and defeat is a foe; when you say that rabbits don't eat grass in the nest there is another saying in your heart... you get the moon when you are near the water."
"When you say that you should be humble and courteous, you still have a saying in your heart...Be benevolent."
Audience: a heartfelt smile. "
"Haha right, you see everyone smiling slightly instead of laughing out loud, it means they all understand, because we are all Chinese, so it's a good exchange, once we say, oh, a heartfelt smile."
"So latent dragon do not use the first stage, or give an example, Zhuge Liang latent for 27 years, he came out of the mountain at the age of 27, once he appeared, he was amazed as a celestial being, not to sound but astonishing is the truth."
"If he groveled in Nanyang all day plowing the soil and growing vegetables to live a life of not asking questions about the world, Liu Bei invited him out to have a snake skin use?"
"So I personally don't think it was Liu Bei himself who automatically went to the three guesthouses, it was more like a bureau set up by Zhuge Liang to first ask someone to give Liu Bei a good impression, not necessarily Liu Bei, but the future monarch he would be loyal to, so he made full preparation and layout at the subterranean stage."
"So what do we see? Liu Bei variously hears from the person next to him how powerful Zhuge Liang is, and this person next to him is not an ordinary person, a person of weight and prestige, familiar with the Three Kingdoms immediately thinks of Xu Shu."
"Then Liu Bei had to come instead of coming of his own accord, but everyone said he went on his own, Zhuge Liang achieved his purpose and at the same time allowed Liu Bei to win the reputation of being a courteous and virtuous man, that is how brilliant Zhuge Liang was."
"The I Ching teaches us the truth of being a human being, that it is the highest wisdom to achieve one's own ends while also not hurting others."
"So I'm going to talk off topic here and give a piece of advice to the majority of girls, you should never, ever take the initiative to chase a guy, never, you can only let the guy chase you, you have to know that men chase women across the mountain, women chase men across the veil."
"And men are too easy to get things he will not cherish, so women chasing men generally end up in breakups, divorce, basically, is there a woman chasing a man finally grow old together? Of course there are, but those are only a few exceptions."
"The truth behind the I Ching has been suggesting to you from every aspect that there are routines and exceptions, that is what one yin and one yang is called the Tao."
On stage, Li Linfei wrapped his arms around the microphone in one hand and looked at the male and female university students on the scene, shrugging his shoulders, "Some people disagree, saying that Li Linfei you are feudal-minded and chauvinistic, what kind of society is it now? What kind of society is this? A civilised society, where men and women are equal and both boys and girls have the right to pursue their own love, why shouldn't girls be able to chase boys? Go to the Women's Federation and apologize!"
"Good le ......" said Li Linfei as he hurriedly got up and walked a few steps with a very amusing pose, "Sorry guys, excuse me, I'm going to go to the Women's Union to apologize."
Audience: hahaha
"Boss Li is so cute, the tech guru also has such a comical side."
A short while later, Li Linfei returned to his original position and sat down, smiled and looked at the whole audience and said, "Don't panic, don't jump to conclusions, so many arguments on the internet nowadays are because of a blind eye, seeing a one-sided thought to see everything and then jumping to conclusions, a large part of the non-stop noise on the internet is the impatience of the heart."
"Fast-paced era more can not be anxious, anxious to make mistakes more difficult to make up, others anxious you must not anxious, you are not anxious others will be anxious, this is a yin and a yang is called the Tao."
"So I mean, girls do not chase boys is not to say that girls do not chase, but chase not chase the chase, you chase the method is wrong, you can not go after."
"But you can chase, the willingness to chase, right?"
"Why do you chase? You find a way to let the boy to chase you well, he chase you is you chase him, you chase him is he chase you, chase is not chase, not chase is chase, chase to the end hey hey hey marriage, not on the knot well, this is a yin and a yang is called the way."
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"Hahahaha girls laugh the most."
"This is not the car to kindergarten, I want to get off!
"Li boss I hate you, Jiu Jiu you, give us single dogs a way to live.
"This is the legendary fishing for kaiju."
"A set-up, all set-up, full of set-ups! I have to say, Li Linfei is indeed very talented in giving speeches, the I Ching is a very raw classic, and in general people don't understand it, they go to sleep listening to it."
"But the more the students listened, the more they were interested, and the more they laughed."
Only to see Li Linfei continued: "put on the workplace, a person to do people to hire you, rather than you take the initiative to sell themselves, the current era move to talk about how to sell themselves to the boss, that is not to sell themselves, that is to cheapen themselves, to sell themselves as a commodity to sell a good price, the boss will not cherish you."
"To put it another way today many things are actually wrong, but many of us don't know, you don't know because you haven't read the I Ching or read it without comprehending it is the same as not reading it."